How to Make a Sub Feel all Loved and Stuff...
So,
I'm pretty darn new at this BDSM thing. Joined FetLife. Went to a
munch or two. Said the word "kinky" out loud in front of strangers at
said munch (munches? munchi?) in an attempt to get over my shyness and
actually learn something. Yay, me. So brave or whatever. In all
seriousness, my brief foray in which I admit to absolutely loving a hand
on my throat, a masculine voice in my ear, and rope on my sensitive
bits has been revelatory. I kind of know what I am. I learn more every
day. Brief intro over, I now turn to the point of this little writing.
Each day, I squirrel about on K&P and read. Of late, I've seen
many "how to make a submissive feel <insert emotion here>"
entries. Some resonate. Some don't. Therefore, I've decided to make
my own list.
1. Say my name. The name you gave me. Say it like you want to eat me for breakfast and then stretch what's left out like a buffet of deliciousness. Say it like I am in serious trouble and I should get ready for what comes next. Say it like a prayer. Like a warning. Like a curse. Like a compliment. But say it. Say my name and say it loud!
2. Tie me tight. None of this pansy, "I hope this isn't to tight and doesn't hurt" stuff. Make the knot tight. If I squirm, hold me still. If I manage to wriggle free, readjust me. But tie me down, tie me to every thing and any thing,use your imagination but above all tie me tight.
3. Expose me. Lay me bare. My body is a wonderland for you to explore. Make it so I cant hide from the light and your gaze. But I want you to see, I want you to stare. Make me show you, give me no choice. Expose me, every part of me, you know you want to.
4. Use me. I get joy from your pleasure. You make sure I have orgasims galore. I love that. But I need to know that when you strike my skin, slam your cock in my pussy, slide your rope around my wrists, you are doing it for your pleasure. Mine is incidental and unavoidable and useless without your satisfaction. So. Please. Use me.
Well. Look at that. My list just has four items. Short list. Maybe I'll come up with more later. But so far, this is what works for me. This is what makes me feel safe and happy and sexy and loved and wanted and adventurous. And submissive. I want to submit occaisionally with the right partner.
1. Say my name. The name you gave me. Say it like you want to eat me for breakfast and then stretch what's left out like a buffet of deliciousness. Say it like I am in serious trouble and I should get ready for what comes next. Say it like a prayer. Like a warning. Like a curse. Like a compliment. But say it. Say my name and say it loud!
2. Tie me tight. None of this pansy, "I hope this isn't to tight and doesn't hurt" stuff. Make the knot tight. If I squirm, hold me still. If I manage to wriggle free, readjust me. But tie me down, tie me to every thing and any thing,use your imagination but above all tie me tight.
3. Expose me. Lay me bare. My body is a wonderland for you to explore. Make it so I cant hide from the light and your gaze. But I want you to see, I want you to stare. Make me show you, give me no choice. Expose me, every part of me, you know you want to.
4. Use me. I get joy from your pleasure. You make sure I have orgasims galore. I love that. But I need to know that when you strike my skin, slam your cock in my pussy, slide your rope around my wrists, you are doing it for your pleasure. Mine is incidental and unavoidable and useless without your satisfaction. So. Please. Use me.
Well. Look at that. My list just has four items. Short list. Maybe I'll come up with more later. But so far, this is what works for me. This is what makes me feel safe and happy and sexy and loved and wanted and adventurous. And submissive. I want to submit occaisionally with the right partner.
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