adventures of a bad girl
my short stories around the subject of bdsm
Sunday, 30 August 2015
Saturday, 15 November 2014
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Friday, 14 November 2014
Let Me Blackmail You
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Sunday, 14 September 2014
Dirty smelly squirt stained panties
Saturday, 23 August 2014
Sunday, 13 July 2014
The Art Of Erotic Spanking
for the love of spanking
Yes, spanking can be sexy, and a majority of women have fantasies about being spanked. Most men, too, find spanking a woman to be a strong sexual turn-on.But sexual spanking is not the same as the punishment spanking we may have experienced as children.
For a woman, the turn-on is not so much in the sensation of pain as it is in the feeling of helpless submission and vulnerability of being bent over her partner's lap, the attention being paid to her behind (a primary erotic zone), the feeling of a man's hand warming her buttocks, and the anticipation of sexual pleasures to come.
For a man, the arousing aspect of spanking is the feeling of control and power over his helpless lover, and the excitement of playing with her attractive bottom, turning it pink and putting her in the mood for some hot, passionate sex.
To master the art of erotic spanking, it is important to understand the following six principles:
The last two spanking principles, and some specific tips to make it really hot...
sexual spanking
To use spanking in your sexual repertoire, it is always good to do a little role playing. You can play the stern guardian or headmaster punishing the naughty schoolgirl, or the offended husband or lover pretending to punish his wife or girlfriend for some imaginary transgression.There are hundreds of roles that can be used as an "excuse" to give your lover a sexy over-the-knee spanking, but whatever role you choose to play, here are some tips to make it especially sexy:
1- Give her a specific "punishment" time and make her wait for it
The anticipation will add to her sexual arousal and increase her receptivity. You can accentuate this by making her wear ben wa balls or play with herself at regular intervals while waiting for her spanking. Of course, you will want to ensure that she obeys your instructions, and that she knows her spanking will be harder if she disobeys.2- Order her to "prepare herself" for her spanking
This could mean taking a bath and making herself clean and beautiful, or dressing in a particular way (e.g. in a schoolgirl outfit, in particular lingerie or in another sexy costume). Tell her that the length of her spanking will depend on how beautiful you find her at the appointed time. These acts of preparing herself will have a direct effect on her state of arousal, as it will make her think about it constantly.3- Take your time to inspect her appearance when she presents herself for her spanking
Comment on every aspect that might add to her punishment or subtract from it, and let your eyes and hands inspect every inch of her body. The intense scrutiny you are giving her will intensify her excitement.4- Before beginning the spanking, make her perform a ritual
This could be kneeling in front of you and begging forgiveness for the imaginary transgression. Always agree that she will be forgiven after her "punishment," as you don't want to humiliate her. You should act as if you are only spanking her "for her own good," and you might even tell her about how you intend to ravish her if she is a "good girl" during her spanking.So what should you do once you have her across your knees? Find out how to perform the perfect sexual spanking session...
Friday, 14 March 2014
The myths of BDSM
2. If you're a dominant person you're an egotistical maniac full of yourself. You're vain, self-admiring, arrogant, conceited, pompous and generally have too high a concept of yourself.
3. If you're a submissive person you're a doormat, a pushover, a weak and feeble person that doesn't know how to stand up for himself, have huge self-esteem issues and generally have too low a concept of yourself.
4. You're uncaring, unloving and immature. You are unsuitable for looking after children, elderly, people with learning difficulties or vulnerable populations in general.
5. Dominance is internalised hatred for women/men, etc.
6. Submission is internalised hatred for yourself.
7. Quite simply, there's something wrong with you. A healthy, normal person wouldn't like this kind of stuff.
8. You're incapable of professional responsibility and social justice. If you are dominant you'd want to dominate everybody around you and you'll be looking to abuse other people. If you're submissive, you'll submit to anybody and you won't have the strength of character to stand up for what is right.
9. The best way to get a submissive's attention is to start trying to dominate her in subtle or not so subtle ways from the start. No need to have an open and honest conversation about it first. Likewise, if you act all submissive and fragile you'll attract a quality dominant.
6- Ease into the heavier spanking
When you actually start the spanking, you may start by spanking her over her clothing, then over her panties (if you have her wearing them). Once you have warmed her bottom, you will always want to spank her on her bare bottom, as that is the sexiest kind of spanking.Alternate a dozen or so spanks with rubs of her bottom, using firm but very sexual stroking to spread the warmth all over her rump. A finger between her legs can be used to get her breathing faster. You can also alternate spanks with gentle rubbing of her clitoris, tugging of her labia or caressing of her anus. This will make her associate spanking with other pleasurable sensations, thus conditioning her to get aroused to spanking. Take your time, savoring every smack and every feel of that delectable behind.
7. Use the right technique
The slightly cupped palm with fingers together is the best way to spank, as it makes a good smacking sound and reddens the skin without causing excessive pain. If she seems to be unmoved by such spanks, you can give her a few with a flat palm and spread (relaxed) fingers — those are the stingiest — until she squirms or responds.A slow tempo, with an irregular rhythm, is the best technique, as the moments of anticipation between each stroke add to the tension; and if she cannot tell when the next stroke might fall, it is doubly effective in increasing her arousal. Again, take your time. Remember, it is not the number of spanks or how hard they are that brings her to a high state of sexual readiness. It is how long and how deeply she feels her submissive helplessnessand the total sexual stimulation of her bottom that is the key.
spank her right
A really good spanker can sometimes bring his partner to climax from such a sexy over-the-knee spanking. But every lover who knows his partner's symptoms of arousal can judge when the time is right to shift her from the spanking position to implement on his erect shaft, which should be hard and ready from having her naked bottom squirming over it.Comments